Book: Sarah Vowell's Assassination Vacation. Just fabulous. I love quirky American histories.
Movie: Saving Face with Joan Chen. A fun and thoughtful mother-daughter flick.
Website: Coudal Partners. Always some weirdness going on there.
Toy that you pretend is for your kid but really is for you:
(Ours is more fuschia than red. You can find this one and others at Uglydolls.)